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Month: December 2019

Countdown to 2020- pt 5

T-0 to 2020: Happy New Year everyone!

I walk into 2020 smarter, wiser, sexier and open to new learnings and experiences. If this wasn’t a good year for you, do not worry, we can work together in 2020.

Let me take this moment to make some wishes out loud for the universe to fulfil this upcoming year:

May I come across people with genuine intentions.

May I have the strength and courage to face any barrier that comes my way.

May I do more of what matters and cut off all toxicity or those who are causing it.

May I be the reason this year, that at least one person tells me- “if it wasn’t for you, I would’ve given up”

May I be guided towards the light and help others while doing so.

With that I’ll end my chain of experiences in 2019. This was a lot of fun and something I can carry forward to next year as well.

The end…. Or maybe I’m just getting started πŸ˜‰

Self Therapy- Session 20

If you read my first Self Therapy post which was somewhere in start of this year. And then this one, you wouldn’t believe if it’s the same person.

That’s is the magnitude of change I have experienced. If someone else narrated this as their story, I wouldn’t believe it myself.

You see, at the start of this year I was directionless and hopeless. I had given up on life with zero things to look forward to. Mainly because I was not paying attention to the 1000 things I was already blessed with.

Gratitude for sure defines your attitude.

Fast forward just 6 days left in 2020, I sit here as a person who has undergone massive transformation. Everything that I wished for, I prayed for, I have today. I have so much to look forward to this new year. It is probably the only new year in 5 years where I will be genuinely happy. And on this grand occasion I’d like to make a prayer.

I put out a wish to the universe to make this year the bestest year ever.

May I come across people with genuine intentions.

May I have the strength and courage to face any barrier that will obviously come my way.

May I do more of what matters and cut off all toxicity or those who are causing it.

May I be the reason this year, that at least one person tells me- “if it wasn’t for you, I would’ve given up”

May I be guided towards the light and help others while doing so.

With that I will end my post. I will be making another one on the last day of 2019 so stay tuned πŸ˜‰

Countdown to 2020- pt 4

(Continued)
T-11 to 2020: This year was all about doing things right and I think I did a pretty good job at taking some initiatives. Will try to post all that I can remember.

To start with, during commute, I started listening to podcasts which is an excellent thing to do (highly advised). Worked really hard to inculcate the habit of reading regularly (something I have always struggled with).

Fixed my sleep schedule which involves both sleeping early and waking up early. There can be an entire post on the importance of waking up early. It’s a game changer. We can talk about it in detail later.

Started going for jogs, started to connect to people on a deeper level as opposed to just small talk.

Started to make my bed, which although sounds something small but gives a sense of achievement the very first thing in morning.

The most difficult thing was making happiness an internal process. Trying to have a good time with myself. Being comfortable in complete silence. Practicing positive self talk all the time so in case you come across that, do not disturb me because I might be having an intense debate with myself.

Changing your lifestyle is never easy. All change is hard at start, messy in the middle but rewarding at last. So start today and change for better.
(To be continued…)

Countdown to 2020- pt 3

(Continued)

T-14 to 2020: So there comes a point in life when you’re just bored of being sad all the time

When you decide you’re not going to just sit idle and will do something about it

When you see there’s a mountain to climb but you also know you gotta start somewhere

So you start asking for help, you start helping yourself.

This is the first step towards recovery, there is still a long way to go

Just keep swimming, just keep swimming (to be continued..)

Countdown to 2020- pt 2

(Continued)…
T-17 to 2020: The thing is that no matter how many times these dark clouds have invaded your life (and passed away), you tell yourself that THIS time they are meant to stay.
Your thoughts are clogged with “Now I am done for good. It is the absolute end”

So the next time you fall in this trap I want you to remember and think of a time when it got real bad. Then think of what happened that made your situation better. Keep that silver lining in mind because it’s always there. And if it’s not obvious then fkn search for it and do not settle until you find it (to be continued)…

Countdown to 2020

As we’re approaching a new year, I’ll be sharing a chain of personal stories spanning throughout 2019 to give myself some perspective and for the sake of self reflection.

Why? Because I want to let you know, that you’re not alone.

Also taking a small step towards my Big Hairy Audacious Goal (BHAG) of making the world better because I was here.

T-25 days to 2020:
At the start of this year, I wasn’t really having a pleasant time in life. Tbh it got dark, real dark. I didn’t think I’d make it through….
(To be continued)

Deep breath

I take a deep breath and I think about all the times I thought I won’t make it. I want to hug my former self and say all this overthinking won’t get you anywhere. Just look at yourself now.

Look how you take care of yourself.

Look how you sleep on time.

Look how disciplined you’ve become.

Look how you’ve cut out all the toxicity from your life.

Look because there is so much to look forward to.

In my darkest times I thought things would never change and I’ll stay down forever. Which is why in my good times I am aware that even this won’t last forever. This puts me in a very sweet position of moderation.

Had I not experienced the extreme highs and extreme lows, I would never have ended in this current calming state.

So hey, whatever you’re going through, it’s happening for a reason. It’s all part of a big plan even if you think otherwise. Keep hanging, keep breathing, your time will come and your stars will shine⭐

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