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Month: August 2019

I know how you feel

I know you feel like no one is listening

I know you feel like no one cares

I know you feel like your existence does not matter

But I want YOU to know all these feelings aren’t true. You didn’t think it would turn around this way but such is life. Right now there is a lot of uncertainty, you have too many questions with no answers. The amount of self doubt has taken you down. The multiple falls are making you doubt if a comeback will be worth it. But trust me it will be. Always.

I won’t share sugar coated examples of x,y,z who felt the same but made it through but I will share my personal example because I’ve been where you are right now. I know EXACTLY how you feel. But remind yourself of times when it went to shit in the past but you pulled yourself together.

A day not long from now you will rise again. You don’t believe it but you will. The world will be as your audience as they see you rise. You will experience a power you never thought existed.

YOU will surprise yourself.

YOU will better yourself.

YOU will fight your demons.

YOU will love yourself.

Just give it time. Just allow yourself to breath. Go run in a park, go put the weights on, go read those books, go make that trip, go work your ass off, go do the undoable, go make friends, just go and keep going because somewhere in between this going you will find yourself.

Then YOU will tell me the ride was worth it. Your suffering wasn’t worth nothing. It was there so you could pull someone else up, just like reading my post uplifted you. That’s how we survive, by being there for each other, even if we may not know each other but we can still connect on an emotional level.

Time changes, no two days are the same. Your time will come. This is my promise to YOU!

VOGUE PARAODY: 73 Questions About Me

I was nominated by Kirsty Marie. Thank you so much for this nomination, i’m truly grateful! This is a challenge inspired by a Vogue magazine series which interviews celebrities and other public figures. The questions are designed to let people know a bit more about your likes and lifestyle. So i thought this was a good way to let you all know a little more about me…

My list of nominees will be posted at the end of this post!

73 questions


What’s your usual Starbucks order?

  • Iced Coffee

What does your workstation look like?

  • A generic desktop setup and my water bottle, we are not allowed to carry eatables or any sort of paper including tissues due to compliance policy :p

Favourite food?

  • Biryani

Favourite author?

  • Matt Haig

What do you think of open relationships?

  • Whatever works for you

What is your favourite video game?

  • GTA and WWE

Guilty pleasure treat?

  • McDonalds

Your favourite movie?

  • Lion

Favourite book?

  • How to be a bawse by Lily Singh

Best advice you’ve ever received?

  • “It’s not about how hard you hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward.”
    Not an advice, but a quote from Rokcy Balboa

Twitter or instagram?

  • WordPress :p

Are you a desktop or laptop person?

  • Laptop

What projects are you working on right now?

  • I work in customer services also saving for a trip

Whats your favourite colour?

  • Blue

Did you get good grades in school?

  • Yes

Dream job?

  • Travel Vlogger

Play any sports?

  • I work out

Do you have a degree?

  • I have an MBA in Marketing

Nationality?

  • Not to be disclosed 😉

What is your favourite kind of blog post?

  • Mental health blogs.

What do you like to collect?

  • Memories

Describe yourself in 3 words?

  • Funny, ambitious and caring.

If you were a rapper what would your stage name be?

  • StayAlive!

Who was the last person you DM’d?

  • best friend

What’s on top of your wish list right now?

  • Travel the world.

Sorting house?

  • I’m not to sure what this means…

How many tattoos do you have?

  • None

What are you most grateful for this year?

  • I am alive.

Whats the best thing that happened to you this month?

  • This month I got another month closer to my dream 😀

Whats the best thing that happened to you today?

  • Had a productive workout followed by a delicious dinner

Whats the best thing ever?

  • My family.

Favourite season?

  • The season between summer and winter 🙂

Favourite holiday?

  • Eid

Which fictional character do you relate to the most?

Taarzan

Do you like surprises?

  • Yes i do

What’s the biggest surprise you ever had?

  • All my friends gathered up for one of the birthday

What’s the surprise that made you cry?

  • yet to happen :p

What’s the best surprise you’ve ever given someone?

A friend was moving to another country, I arrived at the airport to drop them without them knowing

Do you like muffins?

  • Who doesn’t?

Do you cook often?

  • 2 min noodles, i do :p

What’s your favourite dessert?

  • Chocolate fudge brownie with ice cream

Is there a dessert you don’t like?

  • anything with nuts and almonds

cake or pie?

  • Cakeeeeeee!!!!!!!!

What’s your least favourite food?

  • Thai

What’s your favourite condiment?

  • just put cheese on everything and nutella

It’s 4 AM on a Saturday night, what would you eat?

  • cheetos

If you could teach a college class what would it be called?

  • Reasons to stay alive

Best animated film?

  • Zootopia

What has a guy said or done to impress you?

  • Girl*
    She said if you could see yourself the way I see you, you would start loving yourself..

Best thing to do on a first date?

  • Shut off from the world and just talk

Worst thing to do on a first date?

  • Chilling at home

What’s the funniest pick-up line a guy could use on a girl?

  • Do you have a map? cuz i am lost in your eyes…

Best comic book character?

  • n/a

What are three things that are always in your purse?

  • Wallet* Cash, keys and club card

Favourite drink?

  • Water and Cocacola

If you could play a historical figure in a movie who would it be?

  • Pablo Escobar :p

Kittens or puppies?

  • Kittens

Tell me your favourite sushi roll?

  • I’ve never tried sushi.

What kind of lipstick do you use?

  • uhh i do not :p

What kind of foundation do you use?

  • n/a

Blow dry or air dry?

  • n/a

Who is your fashion icon?

  • none

Favourite Disney character?

  • Taarzan

What are you doing for tomorrow?

  • Chilling and unwinding

Movie you laughed the hardest through?

  • Hangover

Movie that made you cry?

  • Lion

If you could sing a duet with someone, who would it be?

  • My girl

If your life was a song, what would the title be?

  • Battle Symphony

Whats your favourite animal?

  • Unicorn 🙂

Favourite illustrator?

  • n/a

Person you want to have coffee with?

  • Besties

Whats the country you wish to visit?

  • Turkey

Best way to decompress?

  • A long drive with loud music!

My Nominees are:

https://michellewriterblog.wordpress.com/

https://shadowsofrinum.com/

https://thedaringstag.wordpress.com/

https://girlvsworld.home.blog/


https://conversations.home.blog/

Self Therapy- Session 15

Hello everyone and welcome to another session of Self Therapy. This is the most awaited post that I make every week where I do some self reflection on how the week went. The past week has been an important one.

Mental health wise I’ve had some ups and downs. Some major downs actually. Whenever I follow a set routine over a prolonged period of time, I kind of hit saturation after which my mind starts to crave for change. This is just who I am, it is how I function. So lately I have been having these feelings as to what is to come next, the sort of feelings I generally try to avoid.

Physically as well I have gotten lazy. There was a time not long back when I was going to the gym without missing a single day. This day I missed 3 days including today. I need to work on this.

In my personal life there has been a major update. My brother has moved to United States for good. It wasn’t until he actually left when it hit me. Don’t know when will I meet him next, I hope it is soon.

Lastly comes my dream. I am standing at a midpoint. Literally. 3 months closer and another 3 months away. So far things have gone better than planned. And I hope they go on the same way.

So that is pretty much about it. Do let me know about your week in comments below 😊

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